“The greatest trust-building key is ‘results.’” (Stephen R. Covey)
Trust
is the confidence on people’s integrity and abilities.
¯ Trust = ¯ Speed Cost : When
trust goes down, speed goes down and costs go up
Trust = Speed ¯ Cost : When
trust goes up, speed goes up and costs go down
Trust
tax: a discount on
someone’s credibility.
Inheritance
tax: when you step into a
role that was occupied by someone who created distrust before you.
Trust
dividend: a performance
multiplier that improves every dimension of organizations and life in general.
High trust materially improves communication, collaboration, execution,
innovation, strategy, engagement, partnering, and relationships with all
stakeholders.
Traditional business formula:
Strategy x Execution = Results
Trust business formula:
(Strategy x Execution) x Trust = Results
“The
ability to establish, grow, extend, and restore trust with all stakeholders –
customers, business partners, investors, and coworkers – is the key leadership
competency of the new global economy.”
A summary of
taxes and dividends
The 80% Tax (nonexistent
trust)
In the organization…
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In personal relationships…
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- Dysfunctional environment and toxic culture (open
warfare, sabotage, grievances, lawsuits, criminal behavior)
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- Dysfunctional relationships
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- Hot, angry confrontations or cold, bitter withdrawal
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- Defensive posturing and legal positioning (I’ll see you
in court!”)
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- Labeling of others as enemies or allies
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- Punishing systems and structures
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- Verbal, emotional or physical abuse
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The 60% Tax (very low trust)
- Unhealthy working environment
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- Hostile behaviors (yelling, blaming, accusing,
name-calling) followed by periods of brief contrition
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- Unhappy employees and stakeholders
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- Intense political atmosphere with clear camps and
parties
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- Constant worrying and suspicion
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- Excessive time wasted defending positions and decisions
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- Mistakes remembered and used as weapons
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- Painful micromanagement and bureaucracy
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- Real issues not surfaced or dealt with effectively
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The 40% Tax (low trust)
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- Energy draining and joyless interactions
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- Evidence gathering of other party’s weaknesses and mistakes
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- Political camps with allies and enemies
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- Doubt about others’ reliability or commitment
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- Many dissatisfied employees and stakeholders
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- Bureaucracy and redundancy in systems and structures
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- Guarded (often grudging) dispersing of information
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The 20% Tax (Trust issues)
- Some bureaucratic rules and procedures
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- Regular misunderstandings
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- Concerns about intent and motive
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- Interactions characterized by tension
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- Misaligned systems and structures
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- Communications colored by fear, uncertainty, doubt and
worry
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- Some dissatisfied employees and stakeholders
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- Energy spent in maintaining (instead of growing)
relationships
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No Tax/No Dividend (Trust is
not an issue)
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- A focus on working together smoothly and efficiently
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- Aligned systems and structures
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- Mutual tolerance and acceptance
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The 20% Dividend (Trust is a
visible asset)
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- Cooperative, close, vibrant relationships
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- Effective collaboration and execution
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- A focus on looking for and leveraging on another’s
strengths
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- Positive partnering relationships with employees and
stakeholders
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- Uplifting and positive communication
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- Helpful systems and structures
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- Mistakes seen as learning opportunities and quickly
forgiven
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- Strong creativity and innovation
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- Positive energy and positive people
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The 40% Dividend (World-class
Trust)
- High collaboration and partnering
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- True joy in family and friendships, characterized by caring
and love
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- Free, effortless communication
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- Positive, transparent relationships with employees and
all stakeholders
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- Inspiring work done together and characterized by
purpose, creativity and excitement
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- Fully aligned systems and structures
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- Completely open, transparent relationships
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- Strong innovation, engagement, confidence and loyalty
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- Amazing energy created by relationships
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Myths about Trust
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Reality about Trust
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Trust is soft.
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Trust is hard, real, and
quantifiable. It measurably affects both speed and cost.
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Trust is low.
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Nothing is as fast as the
speed of trust.
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Trust is built solely on
integrity.
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Trust is a function of both
character (which includes integrity) and competence.
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You either have trust or
you don’t.
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Trust can be both created
and destroyed.
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Once lost, trust cannot be
restored.
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Through difficult, in most
cases lost trust can be restored.
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You can’t teach trust.
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Trust can be effectively
taught and learned, and it can become a leverageable, strategic advantage.
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Trusting people is too
risky.
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Not trusting people is a
greater risk.
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Trust is established one
person at a time.
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Establishing trust with the
one establishes trust with the many.
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Trust is equal parts
character and competence. These two values are vital to sustained success and
leadership.
The five waves of trust:
- Self Trust: confidence in ourselves, in our
ability to set and achieve goals, to keep commitments, to walk our talk,
and also with our ability to inspire trust in others. The idea is to become
a person worthy of trust. The key principle is credibility. The end result
of high character and high competence is credibility, judgment, and
influence.
- Relationship Trust: to establish and increase the “trust
accounts” we have with others. The key principle is consistent behavior.
The result is a significantly increased ability to generate trust with all
involved in order to enhance relationships and achieve better results.
- Organizational Trust: how leaders can generate trust in all
kinds of organizations. The key principle underlying this wave is
alignment, helps leaders create structures, systems, and symbols of
organizational trust that decrease or eliminate seven of the most
insidious and costly organizational trust taxes, and create seven huge organizational
trust dividends.
- Market Trust: The underlying principle behind this
wave is reputation. A brand reflects the trust customers, investors and
others in the marketplace have in it.
- Societal Trust: is about creating value for others
and for society at large. The underlying principle is contribution. This
counteracts suspicion, cynicism, and low-trust inheritance taxes within
our society. We also inspire others to create value and contribute as
well.
The purpose of this book is
to enable you to see, speak and behave in ways that establish trust, and all
three dimensions are vital.
When you SEE Trust, you
experience paradigm shifts; when you SPEAK Trust, you experience language
shifts; when you BEHAVE Trust, you experience behavior shifts.
Leadership is getting results
in a way that inspires trust.
THE FOUR CORES OF CREDIBILITY:
- Integrity: congruency and honesty; courage to
act in harmony with values and beliefs and to do the right thing. Ethics.
When there is no gap between intent and behavior. Humility is part of
integrity: to focus on what is right, not on being right, acting on good
ideas rather than having the ideas, embracing new truths rather than
defending outdated positions, about building the team rather than exalting
self, about recognizing contribution rather than being recognized for
making it. (CHARACTER)
How to increase integrity?
a.
Make
and keep commitments to yourself
b.
Stand
for values and principles
c.
Be open
(humble and courageous)
- Intent: motives, agendas and resulting behavior.
Trust grows when we genuinely care not only for ourselves but also for the
people we interact with, lead or serve. (CHARACTER)
“In
law, a man is guilty when he violates the rights of another. In ethics, he is
guilty if he only thinks of doing so.” (Immanuel Kant)
Motive is the reason for doing something. It is
the “why” that moves the “what.” The motive that inspires the greatest trust is
genuine caring.
Agenda is what you intend to do or promote because
of your motive. The agenda that generally inspires the greatest trust is
seeking mutual benefit – genuinely wanting what’s best for everyone involved.
Behavior is the manifestation of motive and agenda.
The behavior that best creates credibility and inspires trust is acting in the
best interest of others.
How to improve intent?
a.
Examine
and refine your motives
b.
Declare
your intents
c.
Choose
abundance
“The
measure of your life will not be in what you accumulate, but in what you give
away.” (Dr. Wayne Dyer)
- Capabilities: abilities that inspire confidence:
talents, attitudes, skills, knowledge and style (TASKS). Ability to
establish, grow, extend and restore trust. (COMPETENCE)
TASKS:
- Talents: natural gifts and strengths
- Attitudes: our paradigms; ways of
seeing and being
- Skills: proficiencies (what we can do
well)
- Knowledge: learning, insight,
understanding and awareness
- Style: unique approach and personality
- Results: track record, performance,
effectiveness. (COMPETENCE)
“Do or do not; there is no try.” (Master Yoda)
RELATIONSHIP TRUST: THE 13 BEHAVIORS
- Talk
straight: Be honest.
Tell the truth. Let people know where you stand. Use simple language. Call
things what they are. Demonstrate integrity. Don’t manipulate people or
distort facts. Don’t spin the truth. Don’t leave false impressions.
- Demonstrate
respect: Genuinely
care for others. Show you care. Respect the dignity of every person and
every role. Treat everyone with respect, especially those who can’t do
anything for you. Show kindness in the little things. Don’t face caring.
Don’t attempt to be “efficient” with people.
- Create
transparency: Tell the
truth in a way people can verify. Get real and genuine. Be open and
authentic. Err on the side of disclosure. Operate on the premise of “What
you see is what you get.” Don’t have hidden agendas. Don’t hide
information.
- Right
wrongs: Make things
right when you’re wrong. Apologize quickly. Make restitution when
possible. Practice “service recoveries.” Demonstrate personal humility.
Don’t cover things up. Don’t let pride get in the way of doing the right
thing.
- Show
loyalty: Give credit
freely. Acknowledge the contributions of others. Speak about people as if
they were present. Represent others who aren’t there to speak for
themselves. Don’t bad-mouth others behind their backs. Don’t disclose
others’ private information.
- Deliver
results: Establish a
track record of results. Get the right things done. Make things happen.
Accomplish what you’re hired to do. Be on time and within budget. Don’t
overpromise and underdeliver. Don’t make excuses for not delivering.
- Get
better: “The illiterate of the 21st
century will not be those who cannot read and write but those who cannot
learn, unlearn, and relearn.” (Alvin Toffler) Continuously improve.
Increase your Capabilities. Be a constant learner. Develop feedback
systems – both formal and informal. Act on the feedback you receive. Thank
people for feedback. Don’t consider yourself above feedback. Don’t assume
today’s knowledge and skills will be sufficient for tomorrow’s challenges.
- Confront
reality: Take issues
head on, even the “undiscussables.” Address the tough stuff directly.
Acknowledge the unsaid. Lead out courageously in conversation. Remove the
“sword from their hands.” Don’t skirt the real issues. Don’t bury your
head in the sand.
- Clarify
expectations: Disclose
and reveal expectations. Discuss them. Validate them. Renegotiate them if
needed and possible. Don’t violate expectations. Don’t assume that
expectations are clear or shared.
- Practice
accountability: Hold
yourself accountable. Hold others accountable. Take responsibility for
results. Be clear on how you’ll communicate how you’re doing – and how
others are doing. Don’t avoid or shirk responsibility. Don’t blame others
or point fingers when things go wrong.
- Listen
first: Listen before
you speak. Understand. Diagnose. Listen with your ears – and your eyes and
heart. Find out what the most important behaviors are to the people you’re
working with. Don’t assume you know what matters most to others. Don’t
presume you have all the answers – or all the questions.
- Keep
commitments: Say what
you’re going to do, then do what you say you’re going to do. Make
commitments carefully and keep them. Make keeping commitments the symbol
of your honor. Don’t break confidences. Don’t attempt to “PR” your way out
of a commitment you’ve broken.
- Extend
trust: “Trust men and they will be true to you;
treat them great and they will show themselves great.” (Ralph Waldo
Emerson) Demonstrate a propensity to trust. Extend trust abundantly to
those who have earned your trust. Extend trust conditionally to those who
are earning your trust. Learn how to appropriately extend trust to others
based on the situation, risk, and credibility (character and competence)
of the people involved. But have a propensity to trust. Don’t withhold
trust because there is risk involved.
ORGANIZATIONAL TRUST
“Organizations are no longer built on force, but on trust.” (Peter
Drucker)
The 7 low-trust
organizational taxes:
1. Redundancy: unnecessary duplication in excessive
organizational hierarchy, layers of management, and overlapping structures
designed to ensure control. It mostly grows out of the paradigm that people can
only be trusted if they are tightly supervised.
2. Bureaucracy: complex and cumbersome rules, regulations,
policies, procedures and processes. It is reflected in excessive paperwork, red
tape, controls, multiple approval layers and government regulations. Instead of
focusing on continuous improvement, it adds complexity, inefficiency and costs
to the status quo.
Low-trust breeds bureaucracy, and
bureaucracy builds low-trust. In low-trust organizations, bureaucracy is
everywhere.
3. Politics: the use of tactics and strategy to gain
power. Office politics divide a culture against itself by creating conflict
within. It generates behaviors such as withholding information, infighting,
hidden agendas, interdepartmental rivalries, and meetings after meetings. The
results are wasted time, talent, energy, and money. It also poisons the company
cultures, derails strategies, and sabotages initiatives, relationships, and
careers.
Office politics thrive in low-trust
environments. In fact, in many ways, “politics” is an antonym for trust.
4. Disengagement: when people continue to work at a company
but have effectively quit, only making the effort to not get fired and get
their paycheck, and not giving their talent, creativity, energy, or passion.
One of the main reasons for this is that people don’t feel trusted.
5. Turnover: Performers like to be trusted and they
like to work in high-trust environments. It is usually a result of bureaucracy
and politics.
6. Churn: it is the turnover of stakeholders other
than employees. Low trust generates high turnover among customers, suppliers,
distributors, and investors.
7. Fraud: dishonesty, sabotage, obstruction,
deception, and disruption. Requires rebuilding the ethical structure of the
company to enforce cultural values.
“When
cultural values are sufficient, laws are unnecessary; when cultural values are
insufficient, laws are unenforceable.” (Emile Durkheim)
“Rules
cannot substitute for character.” (Alan Greenspan)
The 7 high-trust
organizational dividends
- Increased
value: high-trust
organizations earn four times than low-trust ones. “Employees treasure the
freedom to do their job as they think best, and great employers trust
them.” (Fortune magazine).
High-trust organizations are consistently able to create and deliver more
value to their customers. The customer value, in return, creates more
value for other key stakeholders.
- Accelerated
growth: “Trust is our
number one asset…As customers learn to trust us, they generate a
surprising amount of growth.” (John Brennan, CEO, Vanguard Investments)
- Enhanced
innovation: high-trust
companies are innovative in the products and services they offer
customers, and have strong cultures of innovation, which only thrive in an
environment of high trust. Innovation and creativity require information
sharing, absence of caring about who takes the credit, a willingness to
take risks, the safety to make mistakes, and the ability to collaborate.
All of these conditions are the fruits of high trust.
- Improved
collaboration:
high-trust environments foster collaboration and teamwork required for
success, to achieve the benefits and possibilities available in the
knowledge worker age.
- Stronger
partnering: better and
stronger partnerships and alliances are the result of higher trust
relationships. Trust is earned through performance.
- Better
execution: High-trust
companies are better able to execute their organization’s strategy. “It is
better to have a grade-B strategy and grade-A execution than the other way
around.” (Harvard Business School).
- Heightened
loyalty: high-trust
companies generate far greater loyalty from their primary stakeholders
–coworkers, customers, suppliers, distributors, and investors.
MARKET TRUST
“In the end, all you have is your reputation.” (Oprah Winfrey)
If an organization
strengthens its 4 Cores and demonstrates the 13 behaviors with its
stakeholders, you will be able to measurably
increase the value of your organization’s brand, image, name and reputation.
“Employees with integrity are the ones who build a company’s reputation.”
(Roberto Goizueta, former CEO, Coca Cola)
SOCIETAL TRUST
The overriding principle of
societal trust is contribution. It is
the intent to create value instead of destroy it, to give back instead of take.
And more and more, people are realizing how important contribution –and the
causes it inspires- are to a healthy society.
“Executives tempted to take shortcuts should remember the dictum of
Confucius that good government needs weapons, food and trust. If the ruler
cannot hold onto all three, he should give up weapons first and food next.
Trust should be guarded to the end, because without trust, we cannot stand.”
(Financial Times editorial)
“Every kind of peaceful cooperation among men is primarily based on
mutual trust and only secondarily on institutions such as courts of justice and
police.” (Albert Einstein)
“Commerce dies the moment, and is sick in the degree in which men cannot
trust each other.” (Henry Ward Beecher, XIX Century American author)
“To beat back the threat of openness, terrorists have, quite
deliberately, chosen to attack the very thing that keeps open societies open,
innovating, and flattening, and that is trust.” (Thomas Friedman, “The
World is Flat”)
The idea of corporate social
responsibility is not new. In fact, it was originally the conceptual framework
behind the whole idea of the free enterprise system. Adam Smith, the father of
free enterprise and author of The Theory
of Moral Sentiments and The Wealth of
Nations, taught that “intentional virtue” was foundational to a prosperous
economy, and that when a critical mass of people competed for their own best
interests within the framework of intentional virtue, there was an “unseen
hand” that would guide society in a way that would create prosperity and wealth
for all.
“The evolution of capitalism has been in the direction of more trust and
transparency, and less self-serving behavior; not coincidentally, this
evolution has brought with it greater productivity and economic growth. That
evolution, of course, has not taken place because capitalists are naturally
good people. Instead, it has taken place because the benefits of trust –that
is, of being trusting and of being trustworthy- are potentially immense and
because a successful market system teaches people to recognize those benefits.”
(James Surowiecki, Forbes magazine)
Global
citizenship is an
individual choice of you and me making the conscious decision to value and
invest in the well-being of others. It is you and me carrying out that decision
in every dimension of our lives.
“One man cannot do right in one department of life whilst he is occupied
in doing wrong in another department. Life is one indivisible whole.”
(Mahatma Gandhi)
“The success of big business and the well-being of the world has never
been more closely linked. Global issues cannot be removed from the business
world because business has only one world in which to operate. Businesses
cannot succeed in societies that fail.” (Jorma Ollila, chairman and CEO,
Nokia)
Global citizenship is an
individual choice and a whole-life choice. And as we make that choice in our
own lives, we influence those with whom we work and live to make a similar
positive choice in theirs. Together, we build organizations and families that
contribute to the well-being of the world.
Summary of societal trust
1. The 4 Cores and 13 Behaviors are the tools
to establish or restore trust in every context –in organizations, families, the
marketplace and society, both national and global.
2. The main principle of establishing
Organizational Trust is alignment
–ensuring that all structures and systems within the organization are in harmony
with the cores and behaviors. This is what builds trust with internal stakeholders.
3. The main principle of establishing Market
Trust is reputation or brand. It is
using the cores and behaviors to create the credibility and behavior that
inspires the trust of external
stakeholders to the extent that they will buy, invest in, and recommend your
products and services to others.
4. The main principle of establishing Societal
Trust is contribution. It is
demonstrating the intent to give back, to be a responsible global citizen, and
it is becoming both a social and an economic necessity in our knowledge worker
age.
SMART TRUST
Propensity
to Trust: intuition or
tendency, inclination or predisposition to believe that people are worthy of
trust and a desire to extend it to them freely.
Analysis: knowledge or ability to analyze, evaluate,
theorize, diagnose and prognosticate logical decisions and solutions.
PROPENSITY TO TRUST
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HIGH
|
1 Gullibility
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Judgment
2
|
High propensity/Low
Analysis
|
High Propensity/High Analysis
|
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Blind Trust
|
Smart Trust
|
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LOW
|
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No Trust
|
Distrust
|
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Low Propensity/Low Analysis
|
Low Propensity/High
Analysis
|
3 Indecision
|
Suspicion
4
|
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LOW
|
HIGH
|
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ANALYSIS
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Zone 1: (High Propensity to
Trust; Low Analysis) is the Blind Trust zone of gullibility.
Zone 2: (High Propensity to
Trust; High Analysis) is the “Smart
Trust” zone of judgment. Ideal
risk-management. The synergy of both instinct and intuition elevates the realm
of good judgment.
This is the zone with lowest
risk and highest return. The risk is always real, and here it can be wisely
moderated and managed. You have the personal analysis to carefully evaluate and
consider issues and the propensity to trust that releases, encourages, and
generates synergy with the creativity and judgment of others.
The propensity to trust
becomes the catalyst in creating that same propensity in others, and they want
to live up to that trust. While not necessarily extending trust to someone, it
will almost always build trust.
Zone 3: (Low Propensity to
Trust; Low Analysis) is the “No Trust” zone of indecision. With low analysis it is even difficult to trust
oneself. Characterized by indecision, insecurity, protectiveness, apprehension,
tentativeness, and immobilization.
Zone 4: (Low Propensity to
Trust; High Analysis) is the “Distrust” zone of suspicion. No trust on anyone but themselves. People in this zone
tend to rely almost exclusively on analysis (usually their own) for all
evaluation, decision-making and execution.
This is the zone with the
highest risk. When you are highly suspicious, you cut off collaboration and
synergy, you miss opportunities, and the only analysis that you have is your
own, which may be limited or wrong; but you may not even realize it because you
cut yourself off from access to the valuable thoughts, ideas, wisdom, and
perspectives of others.
Ultimately, leaders who only
trust themselves can lead their organizations only as far as they can take
themselves. They are demoralizing to work with. They run on high risk driving
away their best and most talented people who simply won’t work in a restrictive
environment of control.
Additionally, the risk for
leadership is extremely high because it gives limited perspective, lack of
collaboration, alienation of talent, and lost opportunity. In the modern global
economy, not trusting people is often the greatest risk of all.
Three variables of analysis:
- Opportunity: situation or task at hand
- Risk
involved: possibility,
probability, importance and visibility of outcomes
- Credibility: character and competence of the
people involved
In extending trust, the
general guideline is to extend trust conditionally to those who are earning it
and abundantly to those who have already done so. Keep in mind that even when
you extend trust abundantly, there should still always be accountability
because that is a principle that actually enhances trust. The decision to
extend or not extend trust is always an issue of risk management.
Delegation is intellectual,
and entrusting is intuitive. The number one job as a leader is to inspire
trust. It is to release the creativity and capacity of individuals to give
their best and to create a high-trust environment in which they can effectively
work with others.
Regaining Trust
When trust has been lost, put
yourself in the others’ shoes. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Don’t
automatically assume that a failure of competence is a failure of character.
Many mistakes are not intentional.
Forgive quickly. We must
cleanse ourselves of feelings of anger, guilt, vindictiveness, blaming,
accusing, or retribution towards anyone that has caused us offense,
intentionally or accidentally. Whether or not we choose to trust, we always
need to forgive, both for our own sake and for the sake of others. Until we
forgive, we are really not free to exercise Smart Trust. The emotional baggage
we carry around jades our analysis and our propensity to trust. We forgive to
bring clarity and peace to ourselves.
“The weak can never forgive.
Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” (Mahatma Gandhi)
Propensity to Trust
Leaders who extend trust to
us become our mentors, models and heroes. We are overwhelmed with gratitude
when we think about them and about the difference they have made in our lives.
Companies that choose to extend trust to their employees become great places to
work.
Trust brings out the best in
people and literally changes the dynamics of interaction. They are inspired,
they run with the trust they were extended, they want to live up to it and they
want to give back.
Paraphrasing Emile Durkheim,
“When trust in sufficient, laws are
unnecessary; when trust is
insufficient, laws are unenforceable.”
Extending trust to others
rekindles the inner spirit –both theirs and ours. It touches and enlightens the
innate propensity we all have to trust, and to be trusted. It brings happiness
to relationships, results to work, and confidence to lives. Above all, it
produces an extraordinary dividend in every dimension of our lives: the speed
of trust.